Inside each of us is the answer we are looking for. All you need to find this ultimate and unadulterated truth is an open mind, a willing attitude, perseverance, courage, and a big knife. A high tolerance for pain is also an obvious advantage, which is perhaps why women tend to know what is going on more often than men. Not everyone comes to understand themselves fully, however, and even fewer really understand anyone else. It is easier by far to drink tea and pretend all this existence isn't actually happening. That's what we advise you do.